Putting the trash out (a.k.a: Keeping it real)
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Travelin' Oma wrote a very thought-provoking post yesterday. She talked about assessing whether the posts we write are real reflections of our true selves or if they are merely the best of us put on display. (She really says it much more eloquently than that. Click over and read her post. You won't be sorry).
But it got me thinking about my own blog and the part of my life that I choose to reveal here.
Do I often intentionally put my best foot forward, ignoring my many faults and failings?
You bet I do.
I don't want to look back years from now at this silly record of our everyday lives and wonder if all I did was complain about how annoying my kids are.
But I also don't want to look back and know that the sugary sweetness I posted about was not how I really felt every second of every day.
It's a tricky balance - sorting between the reality of our lives and the way we'd like them to be.
In hopes of striking a more symmetrical record, I am going to treat you to a little bit of my trash today. It is with much trepidation that I give you a taste of the real Stie, in all her grainy, un-photoshoppped, un-made up, bags-under-the-eyes glory:
Yikes.
This is the sight the Husbandgets has to see first thing every morning. Poor guy.
And for your judging pleasure, here are a few real things about me that you may or may not have known:
I am a clean freak, but that does not mean there are not scary closets and drawers in my house. I have a storage room in my basement, as we speak, that would cause anyone great physical injury if they tried to walk through it, so mountainous are the massive piles of stuff.
I am very vain. I spend a lot of time worrying about what I look like. I will not go to the store without my hair done and my face fully made up. I absolutely think sweats should never be seen in public. And, yes, I judge those who do.
I am also highly self-critical. You would think with all that time spent primping that I would be more happy with what I see in the mirror. I'm not. I constantly second guess every single thing I do and say. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be good enough for myself.
I am not good with confrontation. If I have an issue to work out with someone, I am of the, "let's bury it deep and never speak of it again" variety. Passive aggressive, much? I wrote the book on it.
Lastly, I sometimes dread the hours between three and five p.m. every day. While I am excited to see my kids come home, I really dislike helping them with homework. They're all tired, cranky, talking a mile a minute, and seem to need something from me at the exact same minute. I've also usually procrastinated and am trying to get dinner ready during that time, as well. I feel pulled in so many different directions that some days I think my head will explode. It's my least favorite time of the day.
So there you have it. A little bit of reality - for better or for worse.
What I'd really like to see now is YOUR reality. Post a picture of yourself sans make-up, and put a little bit of the trash out for the rest of us to see. That way, years from now when we think we were nothing but perfect, we'll know the real truth.
And we'll like each other all the more for it.
But it got me thinking about my own blog and the part of my life that I choose to reveal here.
Do I often intentionally put my best foot forward, ignoring my many faults and failings?
You bet I do.
I don't want to look back years from now at this silly record of our everyday lives and wonder if all I did was complain about how annoying my kids are.
But I also don't want to look back and know that the sugary sweetness I posted about was not how I really felt every second of every day.
It's a tricky balance - sorting between the reality of our lives and the way we'd like them to be.
In hopes of striking a more symmetrical record, I am going to treat you to a little bit of my trash today. It is with much trepidation that I give you a taste of the real Stie, in all her grainy, un-photoshoppped, un-made up, bags-under-the-eyes glory:
Yikes.
This is the sight the Husband
And for your judging pleasure, here are a few real things about me that you may or may not have known:
I am a clean freak, but that does not mean there are not scary closets and drawers in my house. I have a storage room in my basement, as we speak, that would cause anyone great physical injury if they tried to walk through it, so mountainous are the massive piles of stuff.
I am very vain. I spend a lot of time worrying about what I look like. I will not go to the store without my hair done and my face fully made up. I absolutely think sweats should never be seen in public. And, yes, I judge those who do.
I am also highly self-critical. You would think with all that time spent primping that I would be more happy with what I see in the mirror. I'm not. I constantly second guess every single thing I do and say. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be good enough for myself.
I am not good with confrontation. If I have an issue to work out with someone, I am of the, "let's bury it deep and never speak of it again" variety. Passive aggressive, much? I wrote the book on it.
Lastly, I sometimes dread the hours between three and five p.m. every day. While I am excited to see my kids come home, I really dislike helping them with homework. They're all tired, cranky, talking a mile a minute, and seem to need something from me at the exact same minute. I've also usually procrastinated and am trying to get dinner ready during that time, as well. I feel pulled in so many different directions that some days I think my head will explode. It's my least favorite time of the day.
So there you have it. A little bit of reality - for better or for worse.
What I'd really like to see now is YOUR reality. Post a picture of yourself sans make-up, and put a little bit of the trash out for the rest of us to see. That way, years from now when we think we were nothing but perfect, we'll know the real truth.
And we'll like each other all the more for it.
